Hunger and Satiety: When to eat and when to wait

     Many of us have grown out of touch with knowing when to eat. Babies tend to be good at crying for milk when they are hungry and stopping to eat when they are satisfied. As we get older, other influences encourage us to eat. We are coaxed to finish our dinners, offered sweets as rewards, and we start using pleasurable foods to calm our nerves. It takes a lot of relearning to get back to that "baby" state of eating when hungry and stopping when full.

    One way to reteach ourselves this skill is with the use of a hunger and satiety scale. With this scale, we can rate our current state and have prespecified points that correspond to "time to eat" and "time to stop eating." We will use a 10 point scale. Let's put "starving" at 1 and "uncomfortably full" at 10. If you at a 1, you have waited too long and allowed yourself to be too hungry. If you are at a 10, you might have stomach discomfort or pressure in your abdomen from the quantity of food eaten. At the midpoint, near 5-6, is where you are neither hungry or full. You could eat without making yourself uncomfortable, and you could wait longer and not be too hungry. Around 3 on this scale is where you feel hungry and ready to eat, but not ravenously hungry. This is a good time to seek out something to eat and begin a meal. The meal can continue until you reach about an 8 on the scale. At this point you are comfortably full, but not overstuffed. Based on this scale, we want to remain in the range of 3-8. This prevents us from getting too hungry or uncomfortably overfull. 

    At first, knowing when to eat out of hunger and stop when full will be a conscious effort. It will take effort to remember to check in with your inner hunger and satiety cues. You might sometimes forget, and then later notice that you allowed yourself to get ravenously hungry or uncomfortably full. With practice, you will remember more frequently to notice your inner hunger and satiety signals to help you remain in the 3-8 range. And with even more practice, it will become second nature.